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I have read your story "Where Have You Gone Charming Billy". I must say that it was a very good story. I would like to ask you as to why you chose to write a story about the war? Did you have family or friends in the war or were you in the war? What was the purpose of the story? Well I have asked as much as I dare and I thank you for your time. I need to hear back from you for a class project.

Thank You

Nicole
Tim thank you very much for the book "The Things They Carried." it was by far one of the best war storys i have ever read. iam a junior at yosemite high school. and like many students my age most books loose our intrest very fast. your book kept waiting for what would happen next. thank you so much.

Jack Thornton
I am a student at Yosemite High School and our class read The Things They Carried. It was a very interesting book. Our class is learning about Vietnam so it was neat to learn about what went on in Vietnam and how it effected people. It seamed like Tim O’Brien wrote about what really happened to him in Vietnam, when it was really fiction. I liked how he had a bunch of short stories which all went together to make the book. I found it interesting when Tim O’Brien said a true war story wouldn’t leave a good feeling in your stomach. Up until that point I didn’t like The Things They Carried because of all the gore which made it hard to read, but then Tim O’Brien helped me realize that a war story isn’t supposed to be all happy. This book has helped me understand about the Vietnam War and some of what the Americans went through in Vietnam.

The Things They Carried was a very good book and I would 100% recomend it.

Taylor Williamson
We have been reading the Thing They Carried in our english class. This is one of the best book i have read. My teacher said that most of the things you wrote you made up and that only some of it is true and the rest is made up. It is amazing how you did this. You can just picture the story in your mind the way that you detail everything uis amazing. My uncle was in vietnam and he has told me some wars storys and they are just like yours. detailed and just really awesome to read. thansk you for making such a good book. Its one of the best in my books!

Ben McQueen

Oakhurst, California
Tim - have all your books, saw you on CSPAN this morning and went to your site. Was in Nam 67-68, US ARMY photographer, worked with 25th a few times. Anyway was impressed with your passion this morning. Could see Nam in your eyes. Back in the 80's I was a member of the NYC Mayor's Commission to build the NYC Vietnam Veterans Memorial. This was the first time I had met and talked to anyone about the war. We'd go for coffee or something and talk a bit. Always the same. Starts with some funny stories about Nam and always ends the same. Two guys staring at each other across the table in silence. I think your books bring the rest of the "world" to that same silence. Look forward to all you write - Neil Leinwohl
The Things They Carried was an extremely well-done book. If I would've gone into it not knowing that it was only a work of fiction, I never would have believed it. Tim is amazing at his writing techniques and I enjoyed this book a lot. I usually don't like war stories, but Mrs. Solomon said that we would absolutely love this book and she was right. Very well done, Tim.

Andrew Stillman

Oakhurst, California, USA, Yosemite High School
Mr. Tim O'Brien, very simply, thank you, thank you for the TRUTH, for it is the key that opens the door to the vastness of the universe. Your being is what truth means to me and I am sure to many..heard you this Saturday morning on C-Span,,,,it reminds me of my son Joseph, Viet Nam Veteran, suffering the experience till to day.....it is amazing how soo many and I am hoping not too many today, believe that war is the answer....American's and Immigrants that fight wars for the US, come home to the masses who don't really know how much suffering continues in the heart and soul of those who witnessed death 24/7 over a period of months and years....the media is a joke....

I have to believe that one day the TRUTH what ever it is will point us on the journey toward Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s Beloved Community..Again Thank You, Thank You for being Tim O'Brien in Texas.......S. Marrs -Rockland County, New York
Dear Tim O'Brien,

I'm an exchange student and senior at Yosemite High School, in Oakhurst,CA. We read your book "The Things They Carried" in the English class and I really liked! The fact that impressed me the most was that you wrote an amazing story which never happened but it feels so real. I mean, all the feelings, thoughts and wishes of the soldiers seem so real....I really had the feeling that I was in the story, that I was in Vietnam, because of the way the book is written! I like history books in generally but your book was just...amazing! Because of the fact that I'm an exchange student I thought that it would be hard for me to understand the book but in the end I saw that the book is written in a way everybody could get into it!

I also love the way you used "Story Truth" and "Happening Truth" because it helped me to understand the book and the feelings of the soldiers better....and I liked the fact that you put post war stories like "Speaking of Courage" into the book to see how hard it was for the soldiers to get back to normal again after the war. By the way, my favorite chapter in the whole book is "Sweetheart of the Song Tra Bong" because it shows how people can become someone or something totally different because of unusual events like war!

"The war intrigued her. The land, too, and the mystery. At the beginning of her second week she began pestering Mark Fossie to take her down to the village at the foot of the hill.In a quiet voice, very patiently, he tried to tell her that it was a bad idea, way too dangerous, but Mary Anne kept after him. She wanted to get a feel for how people lived, what the smells and customs were. It did not impress her that the VC owned the place." That's one of my favorite quotes.....actually, I could say the whole book became one of my favorite book in only a few days!

Finally, I want to say that "The Things They Carried" is a great book written by an amazing author!

Silvia Meinhardt November 21,2005
It was a pretty good book. In The Things They Carried, I liked how creative it is and how he made all of that up. I didn't like how he talked about Matha and wondered if she was a virgin in the chapter "The Things They Carried." Also, how he talked about the water buffalo in all of those details in "How to Tell a True War Story." It was sad to hear about what the men went through and how hard ot was for them.

Bonnie Olsten

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My 11th grade english class, Yosemite High, read The Things They Carried this last month, and I thought that it was quite a unique way of dealing with what the mind can do to itself. Some of the short stories disterbed me, but the one about Linda, that one almost made me cry. How even though both of them were nine, they had something special and unique, and it stayed with him through the war and on into his normal life. I'm glad that we read this instead of some stupid textbook.

Collette
Hello my name is Leslie. I read the book The Things They Carried, and I really liked it. I love to read about the war and try to get a real look at how it really was. I know that a lot of this book was story fiction but that is how most stories are told so that you can get a real look and even a smell out of the war. I was astounded of how the people and the solders lived. To them that was an every day thing but to us it was and is horrible. Thank you so much for giving me a chance to thank you for what a great job on the book and an awesome job on the web site; I love it! It was very cool. 8-)
Hi,

I just read the things they carried in english. I really liked it alot. I liked how it was true in a way but not true.

Sincerely

Donovan
My teacher Mrs.Solomn had us read one of Tim O' Bians books and i loved it. I am really like war and everything that happens in it, this book really had me interested i loved the characters and everything about the book. Now that i know how good one of Tim O' Brians books are i am exited to go read plenty more.

Daniel....
The Things They Carried was a very enjoyable book. I found a few things quite interesting. My favorite was how it had that phenomenon of never being as it seemed. It also helped me understand how soldiers felt and acted in war. I never realized how little things could help you get through tough times. For example, pictures, letters, memories of loved ones. It's funny to think that something little can keep you going through the worst of times. I think that most people wanted the author to write the book with fiction or non fiction in mind, but that is what makes this novel good. You don't know what is real and what is not and you have to guess.

Mike Shimmer Oakhurst, CA. USA
Dear Tim and Timmy, A little more than a year since "A Letter To My Son" was shown to me, I want to say a quick thank you. I've kept that page. I read it from time to time and reading it makes me even more grateful for my own son. And perhaps the re-reading helps me to be a more loving father that day. And while I'm half inclined to tell my own stories and relate them to what your wrote, I'll spare you that. Interesting though how alike we can all feel about something so complex, isn't it?

All the best,

Brian McBrearty


Hi Mr. O’Brien

My name is Steve, and I served in Vietnam from 1969 to 1973 with the US Navy Seals and pulled 4 tours. I joined the Army Reserves in 1975, and went active duty for the Army in 1978. I retired from the Army March 1999. I have been in every conflict that the US has been involved in. My last assignment was Bosnia before I came home and got ready for retirement.

I was working construction in Iowa when I got hurt on the job. I can’t do construction any more so the VA is sending me to school for Business Management. I am a full time student at Iowa Lakes Community College, Spencer Iowa. One of my classes is Intro to Short Story and my college professor Mr. McDonald had me read “The Things They Carried” for a class assignment. Then I did a write up on your story picking out the literary terms that I read in the story.

Reading your short story of “The Things They Carried” took me back to my days of Vietnam. As I read the story, I had to stop a few times because of the items that were in the story. I remember what all the things I carried in Vietnam, letters, pictures, weapons of all types and oh yes, the C-rations, very tasty but not as tasty as the MRE (Meals Ready to Eat) now days. I also remember reading letters from home over and over until the mail caught up with my unit. I remember the death of others that I got to know while I was there. I had many Lt’s like Cross while I served in the Army and that makes me smile because they could have been off springs of Lt Cross.

Thanks for your time.

Steve Sutherland, Iowa - US – Sunday, Nov 6, 2005
I stumbled upon this book on accident and although my arms were already full, I picked it up. My father--a Vietnam Vet who carried the war with him every day--died March 2004 and I've struggled to understand the missing pieces.

This topic was the one thing we never talked about--until one month before he died. I don't even know why I asked, but the answers shocked and unsettled me. I wish I'd asked more. I wish I'd asked sooner. And some days, I wish I hadn't asked at all.

Oddly, I felt some peace after reading The Things They Carried. [Don't panic. I'm not about to say 'I now know what his experience was like' b/c I don't.] But the story of Mary Anne seemed to speak to something within my father. I can see how a part of him remains in Vietnam, peering out at others in the dark. And how a piece of someone else came home with him. How the entire experience changed him forever. Maybe that makes no sense, but for the first time I have a smidge clearer understanding than I did.

And for now, that must be enough.

Thank you,

Alicia, 35

Mother of three

Sole child of Vietnam Vet

Alicia <cathers1@comcast.net>
Telford, PA USA - Thursday, July 07, 2005 at 12:37:42 (GMT)
I just finished reading "In the lake in the Woods'. The book had a tremendous impact on me. I am a recent cancer survivor as well as a person who hears numerous people testify on their war experiences. The think that struck me about the book was how people try to recover from various atrocities. It is amazing how the mind tries to forget and fade certain events. Looking back over my year it feels in some ways like I never went through it. More like I was watching from the outside. I am in no way comparing my experience but was quite struck by how Wade coped. We all create our own reality. Some deal better than others with the hand that they are given. Hopefully the same mistakes are not made and we can learn from our experiences. Thank you for sharing this wonderful, thought provoking piece of literature.
Ruth <max07@rcn.com>
boston, MA USA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 at 13:14:53 (GMT)
Tim, Hi, My name is Tim and I'm 14. I have always been interested in History of wars and my LA teacher Mrs. MacKenzie had your books and she told me to read them for my reading time. So I did and you got me hooked on "Things they carried" "If I die in a combat zone box me up and ship me home" and "Going after Cacciato." All three of those books were really really powerful and shows how much horror all the Soldiers and Cilvilians went through over there and the impact that it had on everyone. Well I thank you for all that you have shown us and the efects of the war. Thank You, Tim Brant
Tim brant <Scoutrboy5@aol.com>
Stayton, Or USA - Sunday, June 26, 2005 at 04:01:56 (GMT)
Hey Tim O’Brien,

I was a senior at Wells College in upstate NY (’91) and "working" on my thesis about Yeats when I happened upon THE THINGS THEY CARRIED one evening in the school library. At the time I was trying to articulate my feelings about the idea of having an unobtainable desire; and the fact that if Yeats had gotten his object/desire(Maude Gunne) his writing would have been less passionate/powerful. Then somehow I saw your book. The place was empty-a really beautiful building, tons of books and vacant spots. I sat down and read. Your book changed my focus. Still has. The whole idea of what is/was and what war is /what life is/love is/fiction is/what memory is—I want to say “haunts” me-- I’m always probably haunted. We all are. But after war experience you have a different filter for your hauntings. That is what I want so much to pass on to my students.

Tim’s war. The idea of what is real, and what it means to be “real” connected back to my high school love of philosophy (Plato, Sartre, Descartes, Tolstoy, Dostoyevesky,) and why I read what I read. My mom also told me about the time when I was very young and held a TIME mag in my hands sobbing—gruesome pictures (I was probably only four?) and asked why they killed children) Your book made more of an impact on me than any other that I’d read in recent years. So, I changed my thesis topic to the affect that war has had on language in the Vietnam “war” and in WWI. I loved writing this piece, and I think in retrospect that it was probably pretty good (I didn’t save it—don’t much with my writing). I got a good grade—yet I had the distinct feeling that the English professors would have preferred another lengthy diatribe on Yeats. Their loss and my gain.

I am now, at 40, teaching at an alternative high school in Vancouver WA. I have just re-read THE THINGS THEY CARRIED and am in the process of re-reading IF I DIE. I have ordered class sets of both (holy shit—you’re books are now $14—hope you get most of the profit). I have also ordered many single copies of other books about the experience. Bill Gates has funded a grant, and I have taken advantage. I am teaching a class about the Vietnam War next year (and for years to follow—I’ve taught one about WWII, and the kids have asked me to create a Vietnam one) and I am so excited about exposing my students to your work. I am so angry/disgusted/furious/sickened by GWB that I can hardly stand it. This is my way to reveal war to my kids. They need to see Vietnam up close, and connect it to the travesty (cliché) that is going on now in Iraq. I think about your canoe (dream of canoe) headed north.

I have composed letters to you in my mind for years now, and I’m happy to get this out. I remember when you were giving a reading at Powell’s several years ago I was dying to see you/hear you; but it was parent conference night. I tried to talk my principal into letting me go early. No dice. I don’t go to readings as a rule. I think it’s a weird environment. I remember seeing Tobias Wolff and thinking that it was just an uncomfortable setting. You, on the other hand, I wanted to listen to, see, and take out for a beer. I wrote a few rather lame poems about you a few years ago while in a poetry class at Lewis & Clark College(they went over well—subject matter). I’d love to share them if you make it out here again

Well, I am creating this Vietnam course over the summer, and I welcome any input you may have. I want you to know that you have had a great influence on me. It seems so superficial now, and I’m thinking that you probably won’t even read this, in which case I am blowing in the wind. The wind carries on though, as does war. Maybe I’ll get lucky.

Ali
ali miller <olive272@comcast.net>
vancouver, wa USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 at 02:52:03 (GMT)


On occassion, a piece of writing so thoroughly grabs you that you become a character within it; you can not be outside of it until the thing is finished. And, as the last page is turned, you emerge on the other side, exhausted from having left so much of yourself in the experience of the reading. A numbness is all that is left: a vacancy of thought, of feeling. Everything that you are has been taken, and held, and you are left only to marvel at the wonderful journey that quality writing asks us to take. It is a journey for which one pays a price, but one that is, nevertheless, a journey of growth - and with growth comes pain. "The Things They Carried" held me in this way; puttting into perspective many issues that I had yet to lay to rest - issues of having bareley missed Vietnam, issues of having known those who served and paid the price, issues of having thought about a run for Canada (should the choice have been necessary). I have fought for closure for that part of my life. We all fought so hard here for the war to end and we all hated those who carried the weaponry into the fields and jungles and villages of Vietnam. Now, with perspective, we realize that there was no man or woman who was not scarred by those times. We all cried out in one way or another to stop asking men to be sane in insane environment. I sat with the author in the shit field as he buried Kiowa's mocassins. I think there are a lot of us that need to bury mocassins.
George Buell <gb@palashospitality.com>
Charleston, SC USA - Monday, June 13, 2005 at 02:09:40 (GMT)
Dear Mr. Obrien, I have recently concluded The Things They Carried. It was a beautiful depiction of self-struggle and weakness. Through your diction, there was a masterpiece. Through inner self-struggle, there were attachments to the characters. This was a remarkable book that really explored all of the depths to a war, and of the solders, and of the minds of the solders after this was finished. Thank you for sharing such a personal book with us all. I will wait excitedly to see what work comes next. SLS
Shelby Leah <Shelby713@adelphia.net>
Colchester, VT USA - Sunday, June 12, 2005 at 15:28:21 (GMT)
I recently read your novel The Things They Carried in my AP English Language and Composition class. I found your book compelling not only because of the astounding reality of war you were able to capture, but also because of the poetic style embedded within its anecdotal aspects. Your visual descriptions and uses of imagery really grabbed me and kept me reading. I look forward to reading more of your work.
Alissa Gamberg <PurplePrimrose@msn.com>
Colchester, VT USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 at 15:56:22 (GMT)
I am a 17 year old and a junior in high school. This year I am taking AP Language and Composition. We read the book The Things They Carried, and I found this book to be very inspirational. The stories really reached out to me, and made me see the deeper meaning of war. I now realize its not all about just going in and killing. People have feelings and develop memories they will take with them forever, some which are good and bad. I saw that very strong friendships were developed, and even continued after the war. I really like how you mixed "story truth" with "happening truth". It gave the book a very interesting affect. I also liked having to ponder which was real, and which was made up. I found that you were very good at mixing, and it was very hard to guess which was which. Only a talented author can accomplish that. I just wanted the author, and everyone else to know how this book affected me.
Liz Wuensch <Lizzabeth0713@aol.com>
Colchester, VT USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 at 13:21:09 (GMT)
Mr. O'Brien, I recently read your heartfelt and deeply moving novel, The Things They Carried, and I would have to say it is one of the most enthralling books I have ever read. The rhetoric and diction, syntax and style all fused together to form a cohesive, awesome piece of literature. I am also in the AP English Language class at Colchester High School, and it was a pleasure reading your masterpiece!
Eric Benda <benda647@hotmail.com>
Colchester, VT USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 at 02:04:25 (GMT)
Mr. Obrien, I have recently finished reading your novel, The Things They Carried and was impressed by it's style and diction. I read the book for my Advanced Placement English class and out of the seven or so books we have read this year, your novel is the one that people were most drawn to and compelled by. Thank you for sharing your stories with us.
Jillian Guter <jill87g@yahoo.com>
Colchester, VT USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 at 01:33:17 (GMT)
Hey Tim O'Brien, I am Chelsea from VT and I'm just stopping in to say that I think that your writing is some of the most inspirational and enjoyable that I have ever encountered through my highschool years. I have just recently completed The Things They Carried, and if every war book was that detailed and well written, I think I'd pick them up more often. Your use of language is candid and unique, and it has made a big impression on me as a writer. I thoroughly enjoyed the stories and personal accounts that you were kind enough to share with your readers, and I look forward to reading your books again.
Chelsea M <chelsee279@hotmail.com>
Colchester, VT USA - Thursday, June 09, 2005 at 16:03:51 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'Brien, I am a junior in high school and my AP English class just finished reading your novel. I am not one to pick up a book and begin reading, but yours was very intriguing. I thoroughly enjoyed reading a book where I was not being sheltered from the truth and the reality of war. Although the book was quite gruesome at times it really gave me a sense of what Vietnam Veterans went through during this war.
Liz Ryan
USA - Thursday, June 09, 2005 at 02:09:42 (GMT)
HAve read your work.. IT is all wonderful ! ( almost all !!) -- the piece that got me most involved was the Letter you wrote to your young son.. I can not seem to find it anywhere..... It was in a South FLorida paper a few weeks ago. It was deep and I truly enjoyed it.. Being that I lost my fiance' recently , I feel at times I will never have a child and who knows what stories I will tell.--- IF I can find a copy of that letter it would be an honor.. Thanks !! Carlo
Carlo Bidone <carlo.bidone@gmail.com>
Aventura, FL USA - Wednesday, June 08, 2005 at 19:01:29 (GMT)
Dear mr. O'Brien, My name is SPC Brown, and I am in the 82nd Airborne Division currently in Afghanistan. Three years ago i read your book "The Things They Carried," in my high school English class and I loved it. My English teacher gave my "If I Die In a Combat Zone" before I left for the army and I have read it whenever I am out on missions. Being a fellow RTO I can really relate to your book, even though im in a completly different war I find so many similarities, and its so good to read a book about things that I have had to deal with and thought about the same things that you dealt with. I would love to talk with you more in depth about your book and I have so many questions for you and would love to talk to you about it; is there an actual hard address to reach you? My email address is: marshall.peyton.brown@us.army.mil
SPC Brown, Marshall <marshall.peyton.brown@us.army.mil>
Kandahar, Afghanistan - Monday, June 06, 2005 at 13:22:55 (GMT)
Dear Tim, When my teacher handed out another book for us to read a few weeks ago, naturally I was my typical self. I dislike reading like you wouldn't believe. But when I started reading your book "The Things They Carried" I couldn't put it down. It touched me...I even find myself talking about the book to some of my friends. AWESOME book!
Kelly Brown <kelly00017@yahoo.com>
McFarland, WI USA - Thursday, June 02, 2005 at 21:55:37 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'Brien,

from page 40 in my copy of "The Things They Carried" ". . .that you don't make war withot knowing why. Knowledge, of course, is always imperfect, but it seemed to me that when a nation goes to war it must have reasonable confidence in the justice and imperative of its cause. You can't fix your mistakes. Once people are dead, you can't make them undead."

Eloquent. Timeless. And in light of where we are today -- troubling. As you know, words are powerful weapons -- and a gift. Please continue to use them for all of us who don't have your voice yet mourn the ghosts of our country's past and those ghosts undoubtedly and sadly still to come. J.
Jan <larrythecat@mac.com>
USA - Thursday, June 02, 2005 at 15:35:54 (GMT)


You are a great writer. Period.

Peggy, 48
Peggy <plcatt2004@yahoo.com>
St. Charles, IL USA - Monday, May 30, 2005 at 16:27:45 (GMT)


Howdy Tim, re-reading "The Things They Carried" this Memorial Day. Friend of Joe Galloway and you were kind enough to sign my copy. Thanks.
Wallace Craig <pedro79701@hotmail.com >
Midland, TX USA - Monday, May 30, 2005 at 04:46:52 (GMT)
Dear Tim- I attended your presentation at Shady Side Academy last month. You were a great speaker;informative, modest and interesting. I did not stand in line for your book signing but have a friend who did and then lent me your book In the Lake of the Woods. My yellow lab chewed it and I am now a desparate hosewife hoping to replace it! If you read this site I was hoping I might get another one inscribed to my friend. I will thank you in advance and hope that you will respond. Gayle
Gayle <wsimpson102@comcat.net>
Pittsburgh, USA - Monday, May 23, 2005 at 16:20:46 (GMT)
Had to check out the site because same name. I do have one of your books though.
Tim O'Brien
USA - Saturday, May 21, 2005 at 21:00:48 (GMT)
I've read several of your books. I think that you are truly one of the best writers out there. To write seriously, but not be melodramtic is amazing. I am an apsiring writer, myself, and it makes me all the more impressed my your writing. But, as I am only a high schooler, it doesn't mean much to you.

Nonetheless, I'm a history student who is horrified and strangley interested with the Vietnam War. I have interviewed George McGovern about his thoughts on Vietnam, read your books, watched documentries, and at this very moment I am breaking from a paper comparing If I Die in a Combat Zone to the 1987 film Full Metal Jacket.

Thank you for writing your books. So many kids read one of your novels and say "woah. That was....rough." They can't even put it into words. Shock value is a necessity in today's world.
Lindsay <pandalindsay@aol.com>
potomac, md USA - Saturday, May 21, 2005 at 19:49:10 (GMT)


I just finished reading The Things They Carried and i just want to say that it is an amazing piece of literature! It made me laugh, cry, and it made me see the truth behind the war, that even though there is a war going on you can still find something good out of it. Tim O'Brien is a great author and I can't wait to read the rest of the books that he has written. Question for Tim O'Brien or anybody who might know an answer: I'm not sure how to contact Tim O'Brien himself, so I'll try here. After reading The Things They Carried, and discussing it with my english class, I noticed a difference between my older copy of the book, and my classmates' newer copy. In my book, "Field Trip" ends with the character Tim O'Brien burying Kiowa's hatchet in the field, but my classmates' book has Tim O'Brien burying Kiowa's moccasins in the field. I was just wondering what made Tim O'Brien change this detail. After thinking about this for a while I thought that having Tim O'Brien (the character) burying the hatchet may seem as though he is comfortable, or at peace, with all the events of the war, as the hatchet symbolizes war. Why Tim O'Brien, I think, may have changed this detail is because he was trying to show the character Tim O'Brien is at peace with Kiowa's death, instead of being at peace with the war. I'm not sure about this though, this is just the thinking of a high school sophmore's mind. Please respond if you know an answer as to why this change was made.
Nolan Wanecke <wanecke_nolan@muhs.edu>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 at 02:40:40 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'Brien, I have not yet read any of your books, but after reading the comments and reviews, that will be rectified quickly. My query has to do with your relationship with Dr. Roger Blakely, my mother's first cousin. I am doing family history research and only recently turned to my great uncle's family. Did you know that Roger's father was born in China, of missionary parents? Clement, Roger's father, was the first of three (including my grandfather) born in China in late 1870's. They came back to America in 1880 because their father had been exposed to Malaria and was never quite well after that.

I plan to visit Macalester in abvout 2 weeks, as we travel from Arizona to northern Wisconsin, doing more family research. I am hoping you might suggest someone I could talk to at the college. Or give me some of your own insights into Roger's personal life - was he married? did he have children? But then, I don't know if you can even read all these comments.

I won't burden you with more, but am hopeful that you might get back to me at some future time.

Donna B Cross <crossgenie@vtc.com>
Willcox, AZ USA - Saturday, May 14, 2005 at 17:47:08 (GMT)
I am 18 years old and a Senior in high school and I am reading "the things the carried" one of Tim O'Brien's books. I am only about 3/4ths in to the book and i like it. It is kinda disturbing about the puppy that got murdured but anyway, so far, I give the book a 10 out of 10.
Derek <db03_imports@msn.com>
Seattle , WA USA - Monday, May 09, 2005 at 15:56:47 (GMT)
These books (O'Brians) are very enjoyable and thought provoking. I wonder what he'll work on next?
Pablo Darelli <pablodarelli@yahoo.com>
SLC, UT USA - Friday, May 06, 2005 at 18:28:37 (GMT)
We read "The Things They Carried" as part of an English class at MSU Mankato. I am on here b/c i have to do a project on tim o'brien as an author and his books- kinda of a biography of sorts, using several creative genres to represent different aspects. i enjoyed his book, and although i read "In the Lake of the Woods" in high school, i don't remember much of it so i won't comment on it. otherwise, thanks for the good book and keep writing!
Joshua Warren <joshwarren@care2.com>
Mankato, MN USA - Thursday, May 05, 2005 at 21:38:12 (GMT)
The Bedford Free Library Evening Book Group will be celebrating a milestone: our one hundredth book discussion. Yes, we have completed one hundred works of fiction and non-fiction, meeting once a month at the Library to share a discussion of the book and to learn from each other. We are a diverse group of women of all ages and professions, united by a common love of reading. Our choices of books have been as diverse as the group itself: from recent best sellers to classics; from history to mystery; from biography to fantasy – we have ranged far and wide over the years!

To mark this wonderful celebration, I am preparing a souvenir brochure for our members, and for the Bedford Free Library archives, and I would like to invite you, if you would be so kind, to contribute a few words. Our group read In the Lake of the Woods in August of 1999. Since most of us had also read either The Things They Carried and/or Going After Cacciato, we found this novel to be a powerful continuation of your work, addressing the lingering and deep after-effects of Viet Nam. This was one of our group's most meaningful and personal discussions, and we thank you for your work, and for your heartfelt examination of this chapter in our shared history.

On behalf of the Evening Book Group, I want to thank you for your contribution to our discussions, and wish you all the best for continued success in your writing.

Prof. Susan M.M. Crawford
Pace University
Pleasantville, New York 10570

“Education is not a preparation for life; education is life itself.” - - - John Dewey

Susan Crawford <scrawford@pace.edu>
Pleasantville, NY USA - Thursday, May 05, 2005 at 16:56:28 (GMT)
This is more of a question for Tim O'Brien. My Junior English class is reading you book, The Things They Carried. Earlier this week were were discussing what events in the novel are completely factual. For example, the puppy incident is one event that everyone wants to know if it really happened. So, I was wondering if I could find out about what is truely factual of your novel? Megan
Megan Brown <MSnickers1@comcast.net>
Vernon Hills, IL USA - Thursday, May 05, 2005 at 14:13:41 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'brien, I am a young aspiring writer from New York, and I just wanted to write a message which you would hopefully read. I love your writing and have all of your books, They've been a real ispiriation to me. I've spent alot of time reading about the war, and aside from your books I've read alot of memoirs and historical accounts about it. I even made a student film and thats what drove me to write this. Have you ever been aproached or considered translating one of your books to film? I only ask because a few friends and I might make a non-profit student film project based on a chapter from The Things They Carried. Also, have you read any other accounts? I really enjoyed Lewis Puller Jr.'s book, Fortunate Son. Thanks, Alex
Alex <eriksen@fordham.edu>
Bronx, NY USA - Wednesday, May 04, 2005 at 03:23:53 (GMT)
Tim, thank you so much for "The Things They Carried". You've helped me to understand what my father experienced. My father, James Doloughty (Co. A, 1/502 Infantry, 101st Airborne) was an infantry staff sergeant who was killed in action in 1969. I was eight months old. I work full-time but I'm a part-time student in the English department at the University of Pittsburgh, and "The Things They Carried" has been discussed in two of my classes. Since I never was taught anything about the Vietnam War when I was in school, I think it's great that students are learning about the war in part through your writing. Looking forward to reading your other works! Thanks again, -Noreen
Noreen Doloughty <noreen_ellen@yahoo.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Sunday, May 01, 2005 at 12:41:21 (GMT)
"Things we Carried" was a great read from one infantry man to another. Breeze 1/52 198th Americal Div 1970 San Diego, CA (La Mesa)
Ron Straight <FNG11B@NETSCAPE.NET>
La Mesa, Ca USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 at 02:07:03 (GMT)
I didn't get the chance to come see you last week in Fox Chapel. Hopefully next time around I can catch you. Continued success in your work. I will continue to enjoy your work as will many others. Thankyou for insight into your experiences. My father was a Vietnam Vet, and he died over a year ago of cancer. Reading about Vietnam is important for many people, for many different reasons. Thankyou.
Amy Davis <davisa@fswp.org>
Natrona Heights, PA USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 at 18:24:27 (GMT)
Tim: You're an inspiration! I'm a member of Veterans for Peace in Los Angeles and I've published an essay called "Arlington West: The Things We Carry" - (hope you don't mind my borrowing part of your title - the connection is intentional). The piece appeared on page 1 of the Veterans Day 2004 issue of the Santa Monica Mirror (http://www.smmirror.com/volume6/issue22/arlington_west_the.asp) and was just reprinted in Writersagainstwar.com (http://writersagainstwar.com/jtlunaspr-sum05.html). Thanks for all your wonderful work. You are my muse! JT Luna
JT Luna <jtortori@csulb.edu>
Culver City, CA USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 at 19:00:20 (GMT)
mr. obrien, i am a student in Los Angeles and i truly love your writings. for the past two years i have been on what you could say to be a "vietnam streak." although i'm fourteen, i've come to understand as much as possible about vietnam. i've read both The Things They Carried, and Going After Cacciato. they both have let me come to understand this complex war in a completely different perspective. i have read a lot of books on vietnam including, The Sorrow of War, In Pharoes Army, and In Country, and i can say that these two books are the best yet. i look forward to reading your other books. i just wanted to let you know that your writing has contributed greatly to my own understanding of the war, and my own imaginative idea of what the war was like. i know that i will never truly be able to fully comprehend vietnam, but i can do my best. thank you for your gift to me.
ben safford <lucia@anet.net>
USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 at 04:12:50 (GMT)
Hey, I did a search on my name : Nick Veenhof and i saw a book with my name in. Can anyone explain how and what? Or Tim O'brien --> contact me. I'll be the real life Nick Veenhof (bully or something?). I directly ordered the book and we'll see what it is. Is it true that this novel is read by many students for tasks? Thanks (couldn't find any mailadres of Tim O'brien) Nick Veenhof
Nick Veenhof <nickskev@gmail.com>
Ghent, / Belgium - Monday, April 18, 2005 at 19:35:45 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'Brien, It seems that you are very proud of all the awards you have attained through your books and such. I am currently reading The Things They Carried for my English 112 class at Brevard College. I would like to ask you some questions, however I have noticed that you don't seem to have an e-mail address up anywhere so I am addressing this here. A: Do you donate to any Vietnam War Foundations to help Vets like your self? Do these profits come from your (rather inflated) book prices? B: I am a history major and your book comes off as being rather deceitful, like "what happened at Vietnam wasn't horrible enough, so lets pour some more blood over the whole thing!" why so much blood shed and excessive inhumane actions from the soldiers? C: If its not a political statement about how horrible war is, then what message is The Things They Carried really trying to get across? D: Why can you not tell your own story, is it not Hollywood enough? This may seem like I am trying to discredit (if you can discredit fiction...) your books. I am not! It is just that I would like an actual answer to these questions from you, something I can see with out being blinded by the honors attached to each page of your resume. Thank you for your time, Catherine Johns
Catherine Johns <johnsc@brevard.edu>
Brevard, NC USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 at 05:38:18 (GMT)
I just finished reading "Tomcat in Love," and thought it was brilliant. I absolutely adored it! I don't think I've ever read a book so amazingly beautiful in its language and its scenery and its lovelines. I would say more, but words are inadequate (how ironic) for this book. Just to say I loved it!
Elyse <EKsk8gal@aol.com>
USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 at 22:20:27 (GMT)
Mr. O'Brien, Thanks for an honest, heart beating, gut wrenching review of the life. I was a medic, 71-72 up in the north (I Corps) in the army. So much is left out and so much is told. It seems the important stuff is ignored. Your approach brought it home. "The Things [We} Carried" identified us. Who we were, what we were, what we were about, and what we stood for (what was important to us in the long run.) Although we may have put up a tough front, when a picuter of a young wife and baby comes rolling out, or a mother is taken from a wallet, a guys true heart and upbringing is seen. You showed us as the sons, brothers, fathers, lovers, husbands and friends we were. Instead of the animal killing machines the news media tried to identifiy...no brand us as. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you!!! From a new writer to a seasoned writer, thank you, Frank (a.k.a. Doc Polack)
Frank C. Vozenilek <fvozenilek@mcleodusa.net>
Cedar Rapids, IA USA - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 at 19:44:57 (GMT)
Hey Tim I'm a preuvian leaving in peru who's doing my extended essay (international Baccaleaureate requierment) on your work. I was really impressed by "The Things"... and "Going after..." and thats why I decided to research on you... I really and sincerly hope you can respond back one of this days, because it would be really interesting. Than You JeanMi
Jean Michael <jmichael61@hotmail.com>
Peru - Monday, April 11, 2005 at 00:45:23 (GMT)
Tim, Just finished reading "The Last Juror" and am looking for a new book. Think I'll try "If I Die....." I began basic training at Ft Lewis on August 14th, 1968. Ordered to AIT the final week of basic. Orders were ammended to OJT, permanent duty at Ft. Lewis. Eventually made it to RVN. Even had a close friend from Minnesota. I think I may be one of the few VN veterans who can say that in the year that I spent in country, I never harmed anyone, was unharmed myself, and never used drugs. I want to read your story to help me understand what I would have had to endure had my orders for AIT not been changed. I could have easily been a character in your novel! I was a very lucky draftee...I'll let you know how I react to reading your book.
Delbert Scott <scotts@centurytel.net>
lebanon, or USA - Saturday, April 09, 2005 at 08:44:39 (GMT)
Hi Tim. When you are writing something, what do you understand or intuit or see that tells you something is a story rather than a novel or vice versa? And I miss you. Mal
Mallory <mtarses@capefearacademy.org>
Wilmington, NC USA - Thursday, April 07, 2005 at 17:33:49 (GMT)
Hey Tun, I am a Senior Citizen, attending college for the first time. In honors English, the kids are depending on me to tell them my memories of NAM. It hasn't been easy. We so enjoyed The Things They Carried and are now "disecting" it. I had a little bit of trouble with the idea of a war story from an actual happening...so what's the point LOL great writing thanks..but could you clarify that for me?
lynn foil <murfbrow1@aol.com>
Metairie, LA USA - Thursday, March 24, 2005 at 20:54:15 (GMT)
hey tim i am reading your book"things they carried" in my english class,so far i like the book, but i have a question for you the story that you wrote about the soldiers in the vietnam war did u write about your own story or some one has told you about there experieneces. i am just curious anyway thank you. sincerly angel
angel <thothing@hotmail.com>
new york , ny USA - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 at 16:13:22 (GMT)
I am teaching high school english my students were curious. From you Bio how were you drafted after graduating from college? How long were you in the service. Was this atrue story. Did you kill many people in the war? what are you doing now? Thanks G. Drysol.
Gary Drysol <bustorgar@aol.com>
riverside, ca 92506 - Monday, March 21, 2005 at 21:41:44 (GMT)
All of your characters and settings have been of great interest to me but I especially liked the setting and characters of "Tom Cat in Love". I grew up and still live in Worthington, MN and much of the novel seemed close to home. Worthington is trying to save the Central School from being tore down - Would you consider attending a book signing to help raise funds and awareness for a plan to save the renovate the school. We have a plan and a developer we only need to raise $300,000 in local funds to make the project work. Next to the School we have completed a $2 million renovation of the Dayton House(you may remember it as Cashel nursing home). Many of your retired teachers have gotten behind this project - please consider coming to Worthington to celebrate your work (Worthington is very proud of you) and the history of Worthington education. Thank you. We would arrange a nights stay in one of the Dayton House Suites and a round or two of golf at the Country Club.
Mike Woll <mikewoll@iw.net>
Worthington , MN USA - Monday, March 21, 2005 at 21:06:39 (GMT)
i Spent a year walking america living with only the things i carried on my back and was moved by your book. i appreciated those tiny bits my identity that I could carry with me. As a filmmaker and visual story teller I was right there with you. thanks for that. dakota www.dakotalacroix.com
dakota <dakotalacroix@dakotalacroix.com>
Burlington, VT USA - Sunday, March 20, 2005 at 00:02:28 (GMT)

I just interviewed Tim for the upcoming issue of the literary magazine that I edit, Writers Notes Magazine. The new issue, code named Independence, will be out in April 2005. See more details as they become available at www.WritersNotes.com. Peace. Christopher Klim Titusville, NJ USA - Friday, March 18, 2005 at 01:06:03 (GMT) Mr. O'Brien, my name is (naturally) Lloyd Stevens, and I also am a Vietnam vet. I served with HQ MACV in Saigon from July 1971 thru July 1972, assigned to the SPECAT Message Center. I recently retired from the Army Reserves with thirty years of service, which also included a five month tour in Kuwait, followed by a seven month tour in Iraq. Normally (stateside) I work as the Operations Sergeant for my Civil Affairs unit. During my tour in Iraq I worked with the Government Team of the 308th Civil Affairs Battalion out of Homewood, Illinios.

With that said, I read "The Things They Carried" several years ago while attending Iowa State University, and believe me I fell both in awe, and in love with your storys of Vietnam. I am an aspiring screenwriter, and between working a full time job and juggling a military career I've written three screenplays of which two are based on your ahort storys, "The Things They Carried" and "Sweetheart of the Song Tra Bong." Of course out of respect to you, and your work (and to avoid any legal matters) I haven't made any attempt to market my work. But, what I would like very much is for you to read what I have done, and contact me. Thank you for your time. Respectfully yours, Lloyd E. Stevens (L.E. Stephens)
Lloyd E. Stevens <lloyd.e.stevens@att.net>
Des Moines, IA USA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 at 00:25:33 (GMT)


hey tim whats up? nothin much here just wanted to say your a great writer and the book you wrote 'The things They carried' is my all time fav book so ya thats all well hope you write a new book sorta like that well see ya later by.
valerie baxter <valerie_baxter04@yahoo.com>
sonora, Ca USA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 at 01:49:14 (GMT)
--I tried to e-mail you before Lorraine and the e-mail bounched. You want Tim O'Brien the musician. This is the writer of the same name - Webmaster. Dear Tim - I realise from you site that you are in hugh demand from all walks of life. However - I wonder if you could briefly e-mail me about the tune, Clair Dechutes from Cold Mountain. I do play this on fiddle & piano but would love the written music if there is such a piece!! The tune is quite profound and I would love to see how it is actually written despite playing it by ear. My home address is 802 esplanade, mornington, 3931 victoria, australia if you could even post me same - I can send money by return. cheers - Lorraine.
Lorraine Sly <lozrodsly@hotmail.com.au>
Mornington, Vic. Australia - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 at 13:25:44 (GMT)
Mr. O'Brien, I am a vet who served between the first and second gulf wars, so I never saw combat. But I feel I understand what combat is like. I know the stories, I have seen eyes fixed in a thousand yard stare, and I have known dead troops. It is hard to express completely what "The Things They Carried" evoked in me. Your book illustrates two very important things that I believe most average civilians do not understand. First, it is always about trust and believing in your buddies. Second, people do not understand that even though we put on uniforms, are disciplined and we carry weapons we are and will always be human beings first. Thank you for what you have written. It has helped me find a voice to explain to others many of the things I saw as a paratrooper.
Jonny C. <janus0062k@yahoo.com>
FL USA - Friday, March 11, 2005 at 13:36:36 (GMT)
Faulkner and Hemingway were giants. Salinger spoke underground. You, sir, are eye to eye with me, the reader. These books you wrote, it is so clear, clever, creative. Mr. O'Brien, thanks for the swell books. I'll send you one of mine some day. true story.
Luke Bedillion <Llou2lou@aol.com>
Austin, TX USA - Friday, March 11, 2005 at 06:43:43 (GMT)
I enjoyed reading your book and relate closely because my father served in Vietnam, thank you.
Peter Holt <ph123@aol.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 at 22:13:40 (GMT)
I loved your book! Thank you so much for sharing your story
Rainey Mayo
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 at 16:53:20 (GMT)
I teach The Things They Carried to my high school juniors in my English class. I enjoy teaching this text more than any other. Thank you for such a beautiful piece of work.
Beth Franklin <nbfranklin@charter.net>
Eau Claire, WI USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 at 03:20:57 (GMT)
I an a High School Student and i am currently doing a report on Mr. O'Brien. Though I have only read one of his short stories (Where have you gone charming BIlly?) I came to a conclusion: Mr. O'Brien is a great author, Though most people have not heard of him in my school i dont hesitate to say he is one of my favorite authors. I am trying to find stuff on his childhood but as fas as i can tell there is not site that tells of it. If any one knows of any sites feel free to e-mail me. Your help is areciated.
Morgan Peterson <Fantasygirl1989>
Springville, Ia USA - Wednesday, March 09, 2005 at 22:14:44 (GMT)
I'm a High School English teacher and we have just begun reading "The Things They Carried." My students are European (it's a corporate owned school, for kids of expatriates working temporarily in the US), so English is a 2nd language for them, but their level is good. I was planning to let them see a Vietnam movie after we finish our study of the book and Vietnam in general, and was wondering which film would be the best choice, since there are so many and since they'll go back to Europe with an opinion of this war. Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated! Thank you so much, Josie Williams, Greenville, SC
Josie Williams <JGWmsSC@msn.com>
Greenville, SC USA - Wednesday, March 09, 2005 at 13:40:50 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'brien: I am currently teaching at an Alternative school for expelled students, many of which are highly intelligent but are making wrong choices. We are studying "Engines of War" as a thematic unit as we are is our neighbor. This is a long shot but would you come visit us, sign your books, speak to us about your experiences. A professor of mine, Eric Stephenson, exposed your works to us in college and I have read almost everything you have written. As I am sure there is stuff no-ne will ever see. Anxioulsy awaiting your reply, even if its a "no, cna't make it." thans for your tlime judith fodor
Judith Fodor <judithfodor@medicibooks.org>
Pueblo, CO USA - Monday, March 07, 2005 at 22:38:12 (GMT)
I had the honor of visiting and hearing Tim when he visited Dickinson, ND. I have that night recorded in my journal and in my memory. I was curious if he listened to my advice about where to find typewriter ribbons, however. Good luck in finding replacements. I have some extra if you have been unable to find any of your own, by the way. Charles W. Bauer
Charles W. Bauer <charles_bauer@hotmail.com>
Fargo, ND USA - Friday, March 04, 2005 at 21:40:11 (GMT)
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Dear Mr. O’Brien, Our senior literature class has just finished studying your book, The Things They Carried. As a final project, we collaborated, putting our thoughts, feelings, and ideas together, hoping they reflect the insights and understanding you have portrayed. Here is the culmination of our efforts: A Tribute to The Things They Carried I am a story–teller, truth–teller, a witness, and a veteran. I appreciate what soldiers do for their country, but not the burden of responsibility and grief that follows. Courage, sharing, and patience for understanding are important to me. I think people carry many things, but what is inside weighs the most. I wonder if people will find the stories relevant years from now. I care about all the men lost and the lives that could not be saved. I can move on with my life and still remember. I want something or someone to blame. The future is now up to a generation that knows no real loss. So I reflect on my life, hoping my audience will learn. This is who I am! I am Tim O’Brien.
Senior Class <leasha.carp@district128.org>
Liberyville, IL USA - Thursday, March 03, 2005 at 20:01:58 (GMT)
i really enjoyed reading the things they carried
David Sien <davidsien@yahoo.com>
san antonio, TX USA - Thursday, March 03, 2005 at 19:10:25 (GMT)
im a current student who is in reaserch at the moment on the past and important times of war and battle, i think its great that you have your own voice and your own view on the past and the present of whats goin on around us and so forth,i hope you will be able to reach out to more people. thanks.
Justo
San Antonio, TX USA - Tuesday, March 01, 2005 at 17:48:12 (GMT)
I just finished reading your book and it is great. My greatgrandfater served in the Viietnam war and my boyfrriend is currently in Iraq. This story helped me to understand what war is about and how hard it is to cope with the memories. thank you for the great stories!
jenna
farmington , nm USA - Sunday, February 27, 2005 at 20:48:56 (GMT)
Thank you to Mr. Foss & his English class in San Antonio for their careful reading of this book and for visiting the website and signing the guest book. I hope you will all get a chance to hear Tim O'Brien in San Antonio some time! The Webmaster
I had never really enjoyed a war novel until this book. thank you so much for sharing your story i have a better understanding and appreciation for Viet Nam veterans and high respect for them and the casualties of Viet Nam also. thanks again i really enjoyed the novel.
Elisabeth Hanson <Red8709@yahoo.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Friday, February 18, 2005 at 04:34:46 (GMT)
I just finished reading "The Things They Carried" in Mr. Foss's English class. I really liked it. The book helped me develop a better understanding of the Vietnam war.
Lauren MIller <Tinydander78212 @aol.com >
San Antonio , tx USA - Friday, February 18, 2005 at 04:25:22 (GMT)
I served in the Navy during the Vietnam war and now I find myself writing a paper o "The Things They Carry". It a great story, as a couple of my friends who served there and were wounded told me of similar stories of what they thought about.
Nick Valhos <Navycod@aol.com>
Hyde Park, N.Y. USA - Friday, February 18, 2005 at 04:07:31 (GMT)
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Aleks Katane <kalbashura@chaska.net>
Chaska, MN USA - Friday, February 18, 2005 at 00:48:53 (GMT)
Very good book - you gave me a good understanding of what really went on.
Boyd Oliver <boliver@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 13:16:13 (GMT)
I wanted to thank you for telling such a compelling tale of the Vietnam Conflict. It was an exciting read, and I highly recommend it to all.
Chris Rodgers <Ocy210@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 10:15:19 (GMT)
Thank you for sharing your story with us! I have never heard so many kids in one English class actually say that they liked the book that was assigned for us. The Things They Carried was great!
Katie Reynolds <mules2005@aol.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 07:13:07 (GMT)
I have to admit, I have never willingly read a war novel. When my English teacher at Alamo Heights High School assigned up The Things They Carried, I wasn't all that excited but figured it would be a change to the books i have read in the past. After the first chapter i found my self not letting me put the book down. I neatly read it from cover to cover. I enjoyed it so much that I want to read more....Thanks
Kaitlin <katichica2@yahoo.com>
San Antonio, Tx USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 07:01:56 (GMT)
History seems to have forgotten the atrocity of Vietnam attributing it to just another mark in history books because of so many people's lack of concern. 58,000 men were killed in this war, 2.6 million served. It is writers and books like yours that make the ignorant such as myself aware of the importance Vietnam had in history and American patriotism. Thank you so much for sharing your vision and your memories.
Samantha SOngco <poppyrulz@yahoo.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 06:29:59 (GMT)
Very good book, it helped realize how the war was viewed through the eyes of the soldiers. It was very inspiring.
Shane Littleton <sportmanah@sbcglobal.net>
San Antonio, Tx USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 06:24:39 (GMT)
Thank you so much for sharing your book with me. I enjoyed it thoroughly!
Cates Piland <cep717@aol.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 05:19:25 (GMT)
I loved your book. It seemed so real.
Sneha Patel
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 05:06:52 (GMT)
I just finished reading your book and i thought it was great. the way you describe the war and how it effected the people who were in Vietnam was very informative and interesting. thank you
Elliot Young <edogg8709@yahoo.com>
USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 03:52:21 (GMT)
I loved your book!
Maitlyn Youngblood <maitybug09@aol.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 at 03:48:02 (GMT)
I finished reading The Things They Carried in English. I'm a senior at Alamo Heights High School. I have to admit, this is one of two or three books I ever actually finished in English class for the past 4 years. It was so enthralling. I look forward to picking up more of your books.
Kelsea Bice <kbspurs@go.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 at 23:06:39 (GMT)
Please add Downingtown High School - East and West Campuses - to the list of schools that happily read The Things They Carried. We are very excited about you coming to our area this month.
Kate Campbell <kcampbell@dasd.org>
Downingtown, PA USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 at 15:22:26 (GMT)
I just finished reading "The Things They Carried" in English and loved it. You wrote a great piece of literature and gave me a much better idea of what soldiers went through during the Vietnam war. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with me. I appreciate it greatly.
Ashley Leathers <txgrl6@yahoo.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 at 01:50:01 (GMT)
Mr. O'Brien and other Vietnam vets: I am currently a senior in high school, 17 and going on 18. I'm still a child in many aspects and uninformed, but upon reading "The Things They Carried," I feel as if I have been enlightened somehow. I read it and I cried because the truth of the novel struck home within me. Mr. O'Brien, your novel has brought new light to my life; I respect and honor you (and all vets) for your service to our country.
Kimberly Quirino <kimi_eq@hotmail.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 at 05:05:34 (GMT)
It is really not fair. not fair at all. I was reading "If I Die in a Combat Zone..." for a course at Rutgers University in New Jersey, and, even after being desensitized to that armed conflict that ended three years before my birth (growing up with "Platoon" "Full Metal Jacket" and the likes) I had to be well drunk before reading it through. I sobered up, and re-read the work, and have been crying. Crying for the reality, crying for the experience, crying for human inhumanity and those who were forced to go through it so lucky idiots like me could cry over it, I find myself beyond proper words to express what it arouses in me. Excellent, Mr. O'Brien. You've brought to life the reality of times so harsh it makes this 76-er cry like a little boy in 2005. You are an exceptional writer, and I vow to stand for that which your work has taught. All good things to you. Honestly, Joseph J. Leutz
Joseph Leutz <josephleutz@yahoo.com>
Lawrenceville, NJ USA - Saturday, February 12, 2005 at 03:37:58 (GMT)
I just want to say that The Things they Carried is an awesome book. Also, Widener University freshman are reading this book, and we are having a Brown Bag Book Club in March for it.
Michael De Angelo <hornet379@hotmail.com>
Chester, PA USA - Wednesday, February 09, 2005 at 05:27:59 (GMT)
Hi guys! I'm reading "The thinks they carried" right now for a paper I've to write and I'm enthusiastic about his way of writing. May some of you can help me. Tim O'Brian describes in "How to tell a true war story" his experiences as a love story. I don't understand this. It would be great if some of you could help me! Thanks in advance Andi
Andreas <andreas.habertheuer@aon.at>
Bisamberg, USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2005 at 17:53:17 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'Brien, I read that you were going to be in Philadelphia on 2/24 and 3/15 and I'm quite sure your schedule will be packed. However, even so, I write to enquire about the possibility of your coming to visit Tower Hill School in Wilmington, De. where I am the chair of the English department. Our entire 10th. grade have read The Things They Carried and learned greatly from it; an opportunity to hear/meet with the author would be an extraordinary prospect for them. Thanks for your attention. Hugh Atkins
Hugh Atkins <huatkins@towerhill.org>
Wilmington, De USA - Friday, February 04, 2005 at 12:31:37 (GMT)
I am seventeen years old, and believe me that I'm not one of those people who like to read as a pass time, but there is something about your novels that suck me into your work. I remember reading bits of In the Lake of the Woods, and just being amazed at the writing style; the novel was written in a formal but yet informal manner. As the reader I felt like I was being adressed but at the same time just simply being told a story.

Although, I've read most of your published works and each provides a deeper look into a truth my curiousity seeks, The Things They Carried is by far te best. You write in the novel that when you tell the stories that people miss the point and so a war story can be changed but yet remain the same. I thought a lot about those few middle chapters and I have to honestly say that they tell more truths than even factual events tell.

I understand that at 17 I haven't experienced even half of the things one is meant to see and understand before they truly get life, but I feel a real connection to the novel, The Things They Carried as though it is teaching those lessons so I don't have to learn them the hard way.

Maybe it's because of the timing in which I read it with the Iraq War in place, but the incidents in this war came alive for me. I can't help but see the parallel between Vietnam and the Iraq War, we didn't learn our lesson, and today I stand worrying that the pain, grief and confusion that our youth (really they are just youngsters barley twenty most of them who took there first steps into the world and find themselves in the jaws of death fighting for life)felt in the past is coming to haunt a new generation again.

Have we not learnt that sticking thousands of children out in the middle of nowhere only leads to the destruction of nations, others and ours alike. You described the grief you went through when you got your notice of the draft,the pain and horror of being at war, and the anxiety and feeling of not belonging when the soldiers returned, and as I read all of this I pictured the soldiers in Iraq.

Although, the Bush Admin. clearly stated that the draft was not coming, don't we all kind of expect it? Where is America going to get the thousands of soldiers needed to fight this battle, the enlisting has drooped significantly since the war began, and the reserves are running low? Bush is a liar nothing he says is definate,I can already see this generations suffering.

Where many have died and others suffer mental issues with hundreds out on the streets begging and homeless because they can't honestly adapt again fully after killing people day in and day out. My three brothers are between the ages of 18 and 22 and I worry non-stop about this war, it drives me insane, I can't even bare the thought of loosing them, and unfortunately it is a very likely proposition, but I'm not just concerned because of my brothers, but also on the grounds of watching people around me live.

I see kids at school that are so immature that they can't even resist themselves from doing some of the stupidest things, and they are possibly going to war with the burden of others' lives upon them!

Are we as a nation that clueless? War hasn't ever been popular with my ideology, but this book had inspired me to act on it! I have joined an Anti-Iraq War organization and am currently petioning alongside the Org. So once agian I would like you to know what a great author I think you are, and how you've not only touched my life, but given it a purpose to presue.

I'm writing this in hope that you do get around to reading it sometime, and if you do email me at xotic_angel_babie@yahoo.com because I have a lot of questions about the novel! Hope to hear from you, but if not you'll still be my #1 author, and I hope that life serves you well! -romi
Romi <xotic_angel_babie@yahoo.com>
Ca USA - Thursday, February 03, 2005 at 01:35:45 (GMT)


I have only a question. What is the phoentic pronounciation of "Kiowa?" Honestly, some of my students ask- I cannot answer. Thank you.
donna <dronzani@charter.net>
Horicon, wi USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 at 02:30:34 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'Brien, I just got home after a day at school at which I was privaleged enough, for the thrid time this week, to hear you speak. Being an aspiring writer myself, I gained such a wealth of knowledge during the discussions. I have read, and re-read your book "The Things They Carried" and cannot get enough of it! Every time I read a passage, I find a different meaning and a deeper understanding of said passage. I thank you ever so much for visiting Venice, and I hope you enjoyed visiting us as much as we enjoyed your visit!
Shannon McKellar <targetchica41@yahoo.com>
Venice, FL USA - Friday, January 28, 2005 at 19:52:33 (GMT)
Just finished your book the Things They Carried. It was suggested by a counselor I am seeing for a very delayed case of PTSD. I am an elenemtary school principal, who went through most of my life pretty focused and I guess caring alot hidden baggage. I began to suffer reoccuring nightmares and I was abusing alcohol at an alarming rate. This after being home for over 30 years. As I talk to this gentleman it is amazing how much of the experience I have buried. I enjoyed your story, which I read in one very late evening/morning. If take one thing from this novel it is the need to share, something that I was not allowed to do in 1971. Although I still know that those with similar experiences are the best sounding board. Again thanks and I look forward to reading some of your other titles. John Walker Light weapons infantryman/M-60 A-1 gunner 173rd Airborne Brigade Central Highlands Vietnam 1970/1971
John Walker <walkerjdl@comcast.net>
kent, wa USA - Friday, January 28, 2005 at 17:43:31 (GMT)
tim o'brien's books suck
Amy Laut <sdlhfshf@yahoo.com>
sdgf, sd USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 at 14:06:58 (GMT)
Is there any way I could contact O'Brien? I would really, really like to talk to him and ask some questions. I would really love it if I got that opprotunity. I am a Junior in High School, and I read The Things They Carried last year in my AP English class. Honestly, it was the most moving and inspiration book I've ever read. The storytelling still has me in awe. If anyone has any information regarding a way of contact, please let me know.
Keaton <keatonv@rochester.rr.com>
USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 at 03:33:24 (GMT)
Dear Mr. O'Brien, I'm also a Vietnam Vet. Its been so long ago that I can't remember some things. While reading your book I wasn't sure if on page 7 the M & M's you mentioned for especially deep wounds were medical dressings or literally the candy for the wounded soldier. If M & M's aren't the candy, what does it stand for. Thanks in advance for a response and for a great book.
Chuck <backnine45@hotmail.com>
USA - Saturday, January 22, 2005 at 20:34:28 (GMT)
Mr. O'Brien, We are studying "The Things They Carried" in my ENG 102 class. Lastnight we were discussing the M&M's. Doesnt that stand for medical supplies? And if so, what are they? We thought morphine and something else. Thanks!
Alicia <deerslayinchik11@yahoo.com>
USA - Wednesday, January 19, 2005 at 17:33:50 (GMT)
Dear Tim O'brien, In my English class, we read your book, The things they carried. It was one of the best books i have ever read. It was very factual in ways and fictional in many other. I really enjoyed it. I hope you continue to write more books that will influence the minds of mankind to a state of remembrance. Thank you
kai
USA - Tuesday, January 18, 2005 at 17:37:47 (GMT)
Dear Tim, I finally published DON'T TRY IT ON ELEVENTH STREET ! If it lives to have any success, I owe the "pulling together problem" totally to you. What lucky writing students you have ! If you would like a copy, I would be happy to send you one (or you can order your own thru amazon or b&n and I'll get a wee royalty -- PB or hardcov. By "E" let me know where to send it. I am still struggling with the Alaska book (which will be next). I had been doing work at The Union Institute for my Ph.D. but have just taken a year off from it. Also had to take some time off to 'do' cancer; wel, that's gone by! Wishing you well, sheila cole nilva (sheilacole@aol.com)
sheila cole nilva <sheilacole@aol.com>
sag harbor, ny USA - Tuesday, January 18, 2005 at 03:45:55 (GMT)
Your work is the central focus of a semester long class I teach to high school students on the literature of the Vietnam War at rural New Prairie High School in New Carlisle, Indiana. In fact we spoke briefly about the class when you attended the Dogwood Festival in Dowagiac, Michigan a few years ago. My new class just began with "How to Tell a True War Story." Adding to the mix this year is a young woman who is an exchange student from Vietnam. I know, so far, that her father served in the South Vietnamese air force. It should be an interesting semester. My daughter, who is a freshman at the University of Wisconsin, read you there last semester. Thank you for your work.
Sid Shroyer <sidshroyer@mac.com>
South Bend, IN USA - Sunday, January 09, 2005 at 23:25:50 (GMT)
Your Letter to Timmy is wonderful. You obviously inspired the following. Please allow me to share my adaptation:

Dear Dalton,

On July 18, 2001, you came into my life. When the nurse handed you to me, I didn’t know what to say to you. You were in a strange new world, crying and your eyes heavy with salve. I started reciting the story of The Little Engine That Could, which I had read to you nearly every night you were in the womb. You stopped crying and turned your head toward me, recognizing a familiar sound, my voice. You squinted to see me through the ointment. The nurse then carried you to the recovery room to wait for your mother. I followed. The nurse handed you back to me and I held you for an hour, just beginning to understand what it means to be a daddy. Now you are three and a half years old, a ball of energy with a mind of your own. You continually surprise and entertain me with your growing understanding and awareness. This morning as I stood shaving, you hugged me from behind and then stood with your back to mine, as if to compare our height.

You were a great baby. Not that I have much experience, but by all accounts you were easy on your parents. At the hospital nursery, you showed your good disposition. The nurses adored you because you were a good-looking baby and didn’t cry as much as the others. When we brought you home, you generally slept through the night. Now we’ve made it through the learning to walk and talk, the diapers, and potty training. Now you come outside and ask me to play baseball with you. Most of the time, I’ll stop whatever I’m doing. This is the fun stuff.

You are growing up fast and things are changing. A hard truth: people do not live forever. Early this morning, your Great Grandmother Momie, passed away. My Dad called me at 6:30 this morning with the news. I have not told you yet. Yes, you have already experienced death, but you were younger then, and less able to comprehend. First, your Granddaddy Pawpaw passed away when you were 2. He was 81, but full of vitality. A few months later, our cat, Kang, died. I think he was 14. When you asked me, “Where did Kang go?” I told you he went to the Old Cat Farm in the Sky. You still talk about Kang, and describe how you’ll get him back when you are older, and that he was not a nice cat except to us. For the record, Kang was an aggressive, territorial (Siamese) cat, except to his family. Before you were born, I was concerned that he might not accept you into the house, and might present a threat to your safety. When I came home from the hospital for the night, the same day you were born, I brought a blanket from your crib and put it in Kang’s bed so he could get used to your scent. It turned out that you were a much greater threat to Kang’s health. A toddler doesn’t know how to be gentle. Kang tolerated many beatings before escaping your reach.

Of course you miss your Pawpaw too. He adored you and you loved the faces he made. Pawpaw and your Grandmother Mimi took care of you during the day for much of your first year. So back to your Great Grandmother Momie. It’s been less than 5 hour since I learned of her death. I had been thinking about writing this letter for a while, but the reality of Momie’s passing gives me the sense of urgency to stop what I’m doing to write this letter. It is not an original idea. I read a letter in the newspaper that a writer wrote to his son. It brings tears to my eyes because it says so many things I feel about you. He wrote, “Here’s the truth: Boy, oh, boy, do I love you. And, boy, do I wish I could spend the next 50 years with my lips next to your cheek, my eyes warming into yours.” I can’t improve on that. It is just how I feel. (After all, he’s a writer and I’m a financial guy).

One of my major goals is to stay fit enough to keep up with you for a few years so I can teach you some of the fundamentals of life, including sports. I want to see you make your first shot from the free throw line, get your first base hit in an organized baseball game, catch your first fly ball, and score your first touchdown. OK, if you never score a touchdown in organized football, that’s OK. Your Dad never scored one either, but I played a lot of defense. I will be 49 years old next week. When you graduate from high school I’ll be about 63 years old, depending on when you start school. That’s a big gap. There’s no way an 18 year old can know a 63 year old as anything but old (should I be lucky enough to live that long). At least we seem to have good genes; your Great Grandmother Momie was 101. Both of your grandparents on my side are still around at age 84 and 79, and we still have Mimi. But I want to make sure that I have the chance to tell you who your Dad is, in case something happens and I’m not able to be there for you.

A father’s primary job is not to teach, but to be there for you. That’s all I really want, as hard as it may seem to you now. I’m was little old to become a dad. I waited until I was 41 to get married and settle down. The good news is that I waited until I met your Mom, who provided the other half of your DNA. If I hadn’t waited, you wouldn’t be you. The bad news is, we won’t have as much time together. So please forgive me for that. I want to be around to watch you become a man, to be there as you learn about moral courage, about death and tombstones, the world of hurt and heartache and sin and doubt and frustration and despair. That’s part of life. You will accomplish a lot and do a world of good. But you will make mistakes, because you are human. I want to be there to offer forgiveness. I want to be there when you have a child of you own, so I can see you experience the joy you have brought me.

Above all, I am this: I am in love with you. Fireworks bursting in air and screaming from the mountaintops in love. If you remember nothing else, remember that you were adored by your Daddy.


Bob Higgins <robert.higgins@lpl.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, January 07, 2005 at 20:41:59 (GMT)
I think your books are extraordinary, particularly "The Things They Carried." I have given it as a gift to male friends & acquaintances as well as to the men in my family and, without exception, they invariably tell me they found the book to be a compelling read. I was entranced with the book....and I'm a woman. I read innumerable books about WW II, but have always avoided, without a clear reason, books on Viet Nam, but, once begun, I couldn't put your book down. PHG
Patricia H. Garman <PHGOakHill@AOL.com>
NY USA - Wednesday, January 05, 2005 at 02:43:57 (GMT)

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